I should be more upset about this, but I'm not because I've accepted that something is going to happen to her because she won't take care of herself as the doctors want her to. My grandfather says that the doctors are getting fed up with her because she's not following their orders. It sucks. My mother is upset, somewhat, and my aunt is a little more neurotic than usual. Right now, they're all staying WITH ME in my tiny box of an apartment.
The plus side of today - I visited with my grandfather for two hours. It was nice.